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Empowering you to get your crown back &


Get YOUR ​crown back

Are you struggling to find your purpose? Are ​you unsure of your direction in life? Are you ​feeling lost in your identity after your divorce?​

It’s time you make YOURSELF a priority. Now ​is YOUR time to be empowered and confident ​to do whatever the f*ck you want and never ​let “no’s” get in YOUR way. Like Robert Green ​said, “Do not wait for a coronation; the ​greatest emperor’s crown themselves”.

Services Offered

Get Your Crown Back

1:1 Life Coach​ing

8 weeks of personalized, h​ands-on, private coaching​ with Amanda, to help you “Get​ YOUR Crown back”.

Map-it-Out Workshop

1:1 Goal Mapping

1 hour of customized goal ​setting, while mapping out ​your goals and building your ​personalized Roadmap.

Divorced Duchess

1:1 Divorce Coaching

8 weeks of personalized, ​hands-on, private coaching ​with Amanda, to help you ​survive divorce.

Not Your Average Burn ​Book Membership

Exclusive how-to tips on how ​to live your no F’s given life, ​weekly check ins and live ​webinars with Amanda.


Clients Say

“It goes without saying: when you are going through a divorce, your ​friends save you, again and again. They take you out for cocktails, ​they listen to your horror stories and they reassure you that you will ​get through it. The paperwork, the financial stress, the lonely nights ​when you’re not sure who you are anymore, the mornings when it’s ​hard to get out of bed or the nights when it’s hard to even go to ​bed.

Amanda, I couldn’t have done it without you! I wouldn’t of survived ​the hell I had to go through! Thank you for your uplifting knowledge, ​your kind and honest words…endless support! Because of YOU, I ​survived the hardest obstacle in that chapter of my life! Love you! ​Love you for loving me and showing me that I am a woman and a ​damn strong one at that. No one could ever take my crown away ​again!”


I am Amanda, and I am YOUR _________ coach. I ​am THE coach who has actually been through ​it. I have lifetime of real, first-hand, and ​personal experiences. I have a history of doing ​things “My Way” (in Frank’s voice, “I did it my ​way”).

I am your new bestie. The REAL one, who is ​going to tell you what you need to hear, not a​lways what you want to hear. I’ve got you! I a​m here to guide, empower, and uplift you. We w​ill map out your Road Map, one pit stop at a t​ime. You will learn to fall in-love with yourself, b​ecause you are unapologetically you. I am g​oing to teach you how to build your dream l​ife.

S​o, throw on your crown and remind them w​ho the f*ck they’re dealing with. Xo!

Oops, Why I’m your C O A C H!

Why I’m

your “Debbie”…

“I hope none of us change. I hope we all

stay tired, happy, and maybe a little

bit brave”.

I’ve always had this vision of creating this

world - a place where women feel empowered and confident ​to do whatever they want and never let “no’s” get in their way.

…and that is what I am doing!

As an 11-year-old little girl I think I found my true-life ​purpose and didn’t even know it. I remember going to ​Blockbuster with my mom to rent movies. I couldn’t tell you ​what movie I actually picked out for myself, but I can tell you ​hers…

The First Wives Club with Goldie Hawn, Diane Keaton, and ​Bette Midler. Later that night she popped the VHS into our ​VCR and we watched The First Wives Club. The last scene is ​where it stuck to that 11 year old little girl. The scene when ​they opened up the Cynthia Swann Griffin Crisis Center for ​Women, after their friend passed away from suicide, when her ​husband left her for his mistress and married her 3 days later. ​They end the movie with the girls singing and dancing to the ​Lesley Gore song, “You Don’t Own Me”. In 1996 I obviously ​had no clue what the movie was actually about, except that I ​loved their white suits and still to this day is one of my ​favorite songs.

It wasn’t until 2013 when that movie actually resonated with ​me. When I tell you I went through the ugliest divorce ​possible, that is truly an understatement. It was a bullsh*t ​mockery of lies and false accusations, even from my own ​mother.

2013 was going to be the death of me. I went through ​something so horrific, I thought it was going to kill me. I was ​destroyed mentally, personally, physically, and socially. I had ​nothing. I was a part-time waitress, in fact very little friends ​actually even stuck by. What I did have though were 2 ​“Debbies”. One Debbie was my aunt and one Debbie was a ​customer of mine at the restaurant I worked at. My aunt ​Debbie has always been there for me since the day I was born ​- through thick and thin, always has had my best intentions in ​mind and has never let me down. My other Debbie turned into ​a mother figure for me, I could say friend, but she is way ​more than that. She also worked at an attorney’s office and ​guided me through my parenting plan and my divorce process, ​until it got ugly and I needed to hire an attorney. I will never ​be able to repay these 2 women for everything they both have ​done for me mentally and physically. I will cherish them ​forever and always keep them near to heart.

Because of these 2 women - I didn’t give up. They both ​basically told me to pull up my big girl panties and fight. ​They told me over and over again, when I would breakdown ​DAILY - “You will not give up. You are in one hell of a ride, ​but you will not quit. You will get through this and you will ​win. You’re not going to let them break you down any longer. ​This is will make you stronger and will make you a better ​mother. Do not let this kill you.”

I did it. I put on my brave face, until it wasn’t just an act - I ​got f*cking brave. I picked myself up off that bathroom floor ​and I fought like hell for the longest 5 months of my life. ​AND it was the hardest 5 months of my life! I did not give up ​and I won. The GAL report came back in my favor, but now it ​wasn’t just about winning. This was me fighting for my life, my ​power, and my voice. Like good ol’ Lesley Gore sang, “Don’t ​tell me what to do and don’t tell me what to say….and don’t ​put me on display. You Don’t Own Me”.

I made a vow to myself that I would never put myself in that ​kind of situation again and I would never depend on anyone ​ever financially. AND I haven’t. I put myself first, aside from ​my kiddos. I went to school and completed my high school ​completion, graduated with my degree early and have an ​amazing career giving back to my patients and building many ​successful offices. I built my whole life - when I had nothing. ​Rock f*cking bottom. I am living better than I ever have. I am ​creating my dream life, while living my best life.

I promised myself that once I was in the “right” position of ​my life, that I’d be YOUR “Debbie”. I am YOUR “Debbie”. I am ​YOUR coach, the coach who HAS actually been there. YOUR ​coach, the coach who knows what it’s like first hand to ​actually go through the ugly parts of life. I am here to guide, ​empower and uplift you with the tools and resources I ​personally have used and still use…THAT work. I am going to ​help you fall in-love with yourself and crush every single one ​of your goals. It’s your time now, to start writing your own ​fairytale.

“I’m young, and I love to be young. I’m free, and I love to be ​free to live my life the way that I want, to say and do ​whatever I please”.

It does not matter how many times you have given up or even ​failed. You are capable and your potential is limitless. I’ve got ​you!

Not Your

Average Burn Book

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"I originally started my memoir, on accident. I journal every day, I have for years. The ​more I continued to write, the more I envisioned MY story. MY story, in my own book. I ​went through an awful divorce and child custody case. I was left with absolutely ​nothing, including losing my family and friends. I fought like hell to not quit. I didn't. I ​used all the negative and re-built myself, my life, and most importantly my family. I ​took a pause on "but, she didn't quit”, because I needed to heal more. I needed to ​focus on something fun.

I have manifested for years. It was a therapy for my mind, body, and soul. My day ​still does not function the way it's supposed to without my daily routine. One ​morning something clicked. I am spending more time creating my "perfect" ​manifestation / gratitude / goal setup in my old notebooks, than I was actually ​spending on my practices. While I was running copies of my pages, I had a ​thought, what if there is that one woman out there who is just like me? Just like ​me in the sense of practicing the different ways she had been self-taught.

My daughter is in middle school. I'll spare you all the pre-teen drama. Listening to her ​and her friends reminded me of my own youth. I immediately laughed and thought of ​the movie Mean Girls. I made Chloe have a "mommy and daughter day" - we watched ​Mean Girls. The scene where Regina George made the copies of her Burn Book and ​threw them all over the school - instantly, I knew there was my "something fun". I ​needed to create a "Not Your Average Burn Book". Your complete guide to lose your ​negative mindset, be your best, and burn your old ways down. Are you a Regina ​George?"

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Your 53 week self-empowerment ​journal workbook & manifestation ​guide, that I created & use daily.

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