Are you struggling to find your purpose? Are you unsure of your direction in life? Are you feeling lost in your identity after your divorce?
It’s time you make YOURSELF a priority. Now is YOUR time to be empowered and confident to do whatever the f*ck you want and never let “no’s” get in YOUR way.Like Robert Green said, “Do not wait for a coronation; the greatest emperor’s crown themselves”.
Get Your Crown Back
1:1 Life Coaching
8 weeks of personalized, hands-on, private coaching with Amanda, to help you “Get YOUR Crown back”.
“It goes without saying: when you are going through a divorce, your friends save you, again and again. They take you out for cocktails, they listen to your horror stories and they reassure you that you will get through it. The paperwork, the financial stress, the lonely nights when you’re not sure who you are anymore, the mornings when it’s hard to get out of bed or the nights when it’s hard to even go to bed.
Amanda, I couldn’t have done it without you! I wouldn’t of survived the hell I had to go through! Thank you for your uplifting knowledge, your kind and honest words…endless support! Because of YOU, I survived the hardest obstacle in that chapter of my life! Love you! Love you for loving me and showing me that I am a woman and a damn strong one at that. No one could ever take my crown away again!”
I am Amanda, and I am YOUR _________ coach. I am THE coach who has actually been through it.I have lifetime of real, first-hand, and personal experiences. I have a history of doing things “My Way” (in Frank’s voice, “I did it my way”).
I am your new bestie. The REAL one, who is going to tell you what you need to hear, not always what you want to hear.I’ve got you! I am here to guide, empower, and uplift you. We will map out your Road Map, one pit stop at a time. You will learn to fall in-love with yourself, because you are unapologetically you. I am going to teach you how to build your dream life.
So, throw on your crown and remind them who the f*ck they’re dealing with. Xo!
Oops, Why I’m your C O A C H!
“I hope none of us change. I hope we all
stay tired, happy, and maybe a little
I’ve always had this vision of creating this
world - a place where women feel empowered and confident to do whatever they want and never let “no’s” get in their way.
…and that is what I am doing!
As an 11-year-old little girl I think I found my true-life purpose and didn’t even know it. I remember going to Blockbuster with my mom to rent movies. I couldn’t tell you what movie I actually picked out for myself, but I can tell you hers…
The First Wives Club with Goldie Hawn, Diane Keaton, and Bette Midler. Later that night she popped the VHS into our VCR and we watched The First Wives Club. The last scene is where it stuck to that 11 year old little girl. The scene when they opened up the Cynthia Swann Griffin Crisis Center for Women, after their friend passed away from suicide, when her husband left her for his mistress and married her 3 days later. They end the movie with the girls singing and dancing to the Lesley Gore song, “You Don’t Own Me”. In 1996 I obviously had no clue what the movie was actually about, except that I loved their white suits and still to this day is one of my favorite songs.
It wasn’t until 2013 when that movie actually resonated with me. When I tell you I went through the ugliest divorce possible, that is truly an understatement. It was a bullsh*t mockery of lies and false accusations, even from my own mother.
2013 was going to be the death of me. I went through something so horrific, I thought it was going to kill me. I was destroyed mentally, personally, physically, and socially. I had nothing. I was a part-time waitress, in fact very little friends actually even stuck by. What I did have though were 2 “Debbies”. One Debbie was my aunt and one Debbie was a customer of mine at the restaurant I worked at. My aunt Debbie has always been there for me since the day I was born - through thick and thin, always has had my best intentions in mind and has never let me down. My other Debbie turned into a mother figure for me, I could say friend, but she is way more than that. She also worked at an attorney’s office and guided me through my parenting plan and my divorce process, until it got ugly and I needed to hire an attorney. I will never be able to repay these 2 women for everything they both have done for me mentally and physically. I will cherish them forever and always keep them near to heart.
Because of these 2 women - I didn’t give up. They both basically told me to pull up my big girl panties and fight. They told me over and over again, when I would breakdown DAILY - “You will not give up. You are in one hell of a ride, but you will not quit. You will get through this and you will win. You’re not going to let them break you down any longer. This is will make you stronger and will make you a better mother. Do not let this kill you.”
I did it. I put on my brave face, until it wasn’t just an act - I got f*cking brave. I picked myself up off that bathroom floor and I fought like hell for the longest 5 months of my life. AND it was the hardest 5 months of my life! I did not give up and I won. The GAL report came back in my favor, but now it wasn’t just about winning. This was me fighting for my life, my power, and my voice. Like good ol’ Lesley Gore sang, “Don’t tell me what to do and don’t tell me what to say….and don’t put me on display. You Don’t Own Me”.
I made a vow to myself that I would never put myself in that kind of situation again and I would never depend on anyone ever financially. AND I haven’t. I put myself first, aside from my kiddos. I went to school and completed my high school completion, graduated with my degree early and have an amazing career giving back to my patients and building many successful offices. I built my whole life - when I had nothing. Rock f*cking bottom. I am living better than I ever have. I am creating my dream life, while living my best life.
I promised myself that once I was in the “right” position of my life, that I’d be YOUR “Debbie”. I am YOUR “Debbie”. I am YOUR coach, the coach who HAS actually been there. YOUR coach, the coach who knows what it’s like first hand to actually go through the ugly parts of life. I am here to guide, empower and uplift you with the tools and resources I personally have used and still use…THAT work. I am going to help you fall in-love with yourself and crush every single one of your goals. It’s your time now, to start writing your own fairytale.
“I’m young, and I love to be young. I’m free, and I love to be free to live my life the way that I want, to say and do whatever I please”.
It does not matter how many times you have given up or even failed. You are capable and your potential is limitless. I’ve got you!
"I originally started my memoir, on accident. I journal every day, I have for years. The more I continued to write, the more I envisioned MY story. MY story, in my own book. I went through an awful divorce and child custody case. I was left with absolutely nothing, including losing my family and friends. I fought like hell to not quit. I didn't. I used all the negative and re-built myself, my life, and most importantly my family. I took a pause on "but, she didn't quit”, because I needed to heal more. I needed to focus on something fun.
I have manifested for years. It was a therapy for my mind, body, and soul. My day still does not function the way it's supposed to without my daily routine. One morning something clicked. I am spending more time creating my "perfect" manifestation / gratitude / goal setup in my old notebooks, than I was actually spending on my practices. While I was running copies of my pages, I had a thought, what if there is that one woman out there who is just like me? Just like me in the sense of practicing the different ways she had been self-taught.
My daughter is in middle school. I'll spare you all the pre-teen drama. Listening to her and her friends reminded me of my own youth. I immediately laughed and thought of the movie Mean Girls. I made Chloe have a "mommy and daughter day" - we watched Mean Girls. The scene where Regina George made the copies of her Burn Book and threw them all over the school - instantly, I knew there was my "something fun". I needed to create a "Not Your Average Burn Book". Your complete guide to lose your negative mindset, be your best, and burn your old ways down. Are you a Regina George?"
Your 53 week self-empowerment journal workbook & manifestation guide, that I created & use daily.